The Calm & Collected Overthinker is a highly capable and outwardly confident individual who appears calm but internally struggles with anxiety in intimate relationships.

Anxious attachment tendencies may show up as:

Overanalyzing interactions with your partner

Feeling anxious about maintaining their interest

A fear of being seen as less than perfect

You probably notice that you excel in many areas of your life but find it challenging to apply that same confidence to your romantic relationships.

You may have had the experience of:

• Keeping your anxieties hidden behind a calm facade

• Leading others to believe you're always in control, even when you’re feeling turmoil inside

• Building resentment in relationships because you feel unseen.

Unlike other types, you're more likely to: Downplay your need for attention and affection, maintaining a cool exterior instead of directly seeking emotional closeness.

You may have challenges with: Balancing your independence with your need for emotional support, and allowing yourself to be vulnerable in front of your partner.

The most important thing for your nervous system and growth is to:

• Acknowledge and validate your needs

• Practice self-acceptance

• Allow yourself to be vulnerable and seek someone to hold you too.

Easier said than done.. I know.

But you're a highly capable woman.

👇🏼 Watch the video below to learn more about the Calm and Collected Overthinker attachment type — including specific strategies, supportive practices, and how to start shifting into secure and magnetic in love 🎆.